We’ve all been there. Myself included. I used to blame others for things that showed up in my life.

You know that game: bitching and complaining, blaming other people or circumstances from the past for the situation that you’re in right now.

Here’s a perfect example – “I can’t have a profitable business and make 7 figures because of the recession.” That’s blaming the government for your problems. Yet plenty of people actually grow their businesses to well over 7 figures during recessions! It’s a ripe time for opportunity.

Or how about something a little bit closer to home. Like ,”My parents taught me that making money was hard.” Or, “I don’t think I’ll ever get married because of how much my ex messed me up. I’m just not capable of having a successful long-term relationship.”

I could go on and on with examples of blaming other people for your problems. And guess what? It’s time to take responsibility for creating your own life.

It’s time to release old hurts!

It’s full on Spring here in New York City. The temperatures are soaring, and the rain is pouring. It’s a time for deep cleansing and ordering in your life. Aside from clearing the clutter in your home, now is the perfect time to let go and release the things that no longer serve you.

You’ve got to clear any blocks you might have in order to fully allow abundance into your life and attract that big dream of yours.

Check out my Manifest Mondays video below for my exact steps on how to forgive:

How to truly forgive:

Have you been holding onto something that no longer serves you?  Dig deep.  Is there a grudge that you can’t let go of?  Every time you think of a certain person, do you feel a knot in your stomach and get upset?

Can’t find anyone to forgive? It doesn’t have to be someone else – it could be you!  Maybe you did something a long time ago that you haven’t let go of. Maybe you have a physical ailment that you blame yourself for. This person or thing could be preventing you from moving forward in your life. Once you’ve got who or what it is that needs forgiveness, we’re ready to move on.

So how do you forgive? I have a few freebies to help you below. If you do them all, that’s fantastic! Or feel free to choose the method that speaks to you the most.

Freebies!

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Want some other ideas? Make it a ritual. First light a candle. Then pull out a piece of paper and write a letter to the person or circumstance that hurt you.

Say: “Dear ________,

I forgive you for_____________.  Thank you for teaching me _____________.

I now release you and send you love.

xo,

_______”

Then burn the paper when you’re finished. Release it to the ethers. You are now free to accept new, bolder experiences. You’ve created more space for abundance to flow freely into your life. Congratulations!

I want to hear from you! Leave a comment below with YOUR own forgiveness statement. This is a safe space to share. Let’s support each other on the path the forgiveness.

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I promise you, once you forgive, you’ll feel much lighter and you’ll be more free to attract what you REALLY want.